Really glad you and D got a break. I think that your H is going thru emotions inside of himself. Like an addict, he cannot stop himself but you and I know that affairs do end because the highs cannot be sustained. Wait for the affair to fizzle out. You H is NOT having such a good time anymore. Let him stew in his own mess. You know what, when you H is depressed, it's hard work for him to be 'happy' when he is with OW. Because he will try to be a 'good boyfriend' to her. How can you pretend to be happy all the time when you are in the pits? He will start to resent having to present his best side to her all the time. And if he does show his real feelings, his ups and his downs, you know what? OW is not going to like it. She did not sign up for good times with a grumpy old man.
So let nature take its course. Be patient, wise, wait.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
