We talked a few weeks back about trying to be amicable in our split, and we wanted to make our decisions away from an attorney to save money and make it more reflective of our true wishes. She met with the attorney after asking me to attend, I took a pass as I described in previous posts. Should I ask her how it went or ask what was discussed. I am nervous she is close to filing and although we discussed how this would trigger a legal fight that neither of us wanted, I think she is trying to line things up as quickly as she can. Should I just continue doing what I am doing and try not to encite a conversation? I am a little scared I will come home and get served. I feel like if we talked, she may see this is in neither of our best interests. Feedback please...
