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Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741454 03/26/09 11:00 PM
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OP SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Hey all. How's it going? Trapt, you're right. Those were some easy questions. If I could only answer the really hard ones... I told you I minored in psychology, right? It doesn't help one bit with your own situation though. LOL Guess that's why psychologists can't do their own therapy, either. So, who's out there? I'm having a super great time. H is in my house, "visiting" my kids. Help me, help me. I can barely stand to lay eyes on him after the nasty convo we had the other night. Read above if you didn't see... Um, yeah, we're all supposed to sit down to a nice little family dinner here in a while after I'm done cooking it. How am I supposed to act? Am I supposed to be really nice to him??? Someone jump on here and help me out please. I'm sitting at the table listening to them right now. Jack, trapt, anyone???? "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: I think I'm done... SoCo #1741458 03/26/09 11:02 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	If he is nice be nice. If he is mean...don't be mean but ask him not to speak to you that way. If he continues suggest doing this naother night. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741459 03/26/09 11:03 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	And get off the computer and talk / play with them. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741463 03/26/09 11:06 PM
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OP SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Okey dokey. I can do this... Oh, he's been tanning too along with his working out and strange haircut and tattoo... it takes a lot to keep a 19 year old gf... Give me strength. I can be nice. Catch y'all later. He's not staying late since it's a school night. "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: I think I'm done... SoCo #1741467 03/26/09 11:09 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	For your kids or her? <snicker> that joke was aimed at her not you. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741483 03/26/09 11:43 PM
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OP SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Okay, I'm still cooking dinner. I need more than strength. I need a miracle. She called on his cell phone supposedly to ask a question about work. Oh, yeah, he's her boss. She then gave him the third degree about what he was doing, where he was, when he would be back, etc. Okay , here's the kicker folks!!! He then says "I love you" when he's getting off the phone with her. I thought my son's eyes were going to bug out of his head. He's in my house. About to eat my food. In front of my kids. Married to me. Telling a teenager he loves her. I need more than strength, guys. He is a b*stard. I hate him. Somebody talk me down, please.... Jack, trapt, anybody... "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: I think I'm done... SoCo #1741486 03/26/09 11:49 PM
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OP SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Hello guys. I'm on the ledge here... "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: I think I'm done... SoCo #1741487 03/26/09 11:52 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	You already knwo what we are going to say. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741489 03/26/09 11:53 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	You could at worst...say "I don't appreciate that." And leave it at that. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: I think I'm done... Jack_Three_Beans #1741491 03/26/09 11:55 PM
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AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Ignore it.

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