I think when you're ready you will know when that is. I've read that when others posted it, and it's happened to me this past week. I'm ready to move on and get proactive about the D. I think you should wait until you are more ready. But maybe keep that in mind for 6 months or 12 months down the row so your decisions reflect that?
I think he certainly is confused. I'm sure he doesn't hate or is indifferent to you. I'm sure it can't be easy for your H to turn away from a wonderful person like you!!! I would suggest watch and wait: from everything I've seen here, when they come back it'll be obvious. But, yes, it shows he's thinking of you and you're on his mind in a good way so I think that's good. Karen
