It seems WWs fall into two separate categories. One grouping is made up of the cake-eaters. The second group seems to be composed of WWs who can't get the divorce fast enough to be with OM. As cruel as group one is, the second group are complete idiots. Group two seems to then divide into two subsets. One subset ramrods the divorce through right now, while those in the second subset seem to do nothing -- they don't respond to court orders, provide financial data, etc. Generally, I believe reality sinks in (after the fact), but by then the WW has about destroyed everything around her (family, finances, you name it).

Irregardless of which type WW you are saddled with -- DON"T try to figure them out or burn brain cells what if'ing yourself to death. Bad behavior is bad behavior.


BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09