Right. I know and as I said I wasn't reading too much into it other than that it was strange for a women desparate to end her marriage. I had no intention of buying her a ring, we barely speak, I was just mentioning it to illustrate that she doesn't like it as a jewelry piece. We would have a long way to go before we would feel like that again. Thanks and keep the straight talk coming...I need to hear it from people who have lived it.