Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing

[Thinker]

I am off to a my IC session. I have been seeing the C with whom we started out with in MC and have really found them useful. We stopped going together when the EA came out - the MC said his belief was that if there was a 3rd party in the mix (ie an A of any sort), then joint MC was not helpful until that was resolved.

Since then we have not started up again, since my W felt they were putting too much pressure on her.

Now, I am wondering if I should ask her if we can start again. There seems to be so much tension and unspoken bad energy between us and week by week it seems to get worse. It is not going to come out without MC. I don't want to focus on the past, or the future - but really try to work out what is going on right now between us.

Maybe I'm just dreaming...

I'll ask the C and see what he thinks.