Only if you wanted to DB Needs. : ) I don't really hit people who don't want to DB...ok I hit them once and if nothing I said stings or hurts...then they are making the right choice.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
I was doing it because I want to try everything to save my marriage. THe reading brings things into focus as to why things are happening and helps me to understand that she is really in pain. That deep down she is really not enjoying what she is doing right now.
My W last week was saying how she felt like the world's worst mom so she started calling everyday at 5:30 to talk the kids on days she didn't see them. It seems as though she has cycled back to her "it's all about me" persona. Yesterday when she was here with the kids she didn't do anything with them. She watched TV and took a bath. Today no phone call.
How do I handle this? Do I call her out on it and tell her how disappointed the kids are? I know she will say that I should have reminded her to which I am going to want to say that you wanted to be on your own, you need to remember things yourself.
