Yea buddy, my friends keep telling me she (the W) is going through this too. Again, if we keep chasing, then they will just keep running. You can't worry about her and how she feels and how she is going to react. Who gives a flip if she gets mad because you're coming for a visit or staying for good. You're one out of a couple million in this area, you can do what you want.

You're doing this for your kids and yourself (REPEAT IT, REPEAT IT, REPEAT IT)