Well, I don't think my reply to you, AJ, would be appropriate, so I will leave it as read. Your last post says it all....care \:\)

Kass, Thank you for your kind words. I am happy to help in whatever way I can.

As for the latest...nothing more than I expected, the angry outburst then the remorse later. What I am pleased about though is the fact that friendship was mentioned. That is, in my opinion, the only way to turn this whole thing around. Back to basics. No expectations, no pressures, just a wholesome respect.

If you can get to that place together, which is down to you as much as him Kass, then it is a great place to start from. As ever though, there is no rush and 'acquaintances' will be just fine for now to allow for the detaching to continue. You are both VERY vulnerable right now and need to protect yourselves from each other.

There is something positive lurking there though, I can feel it in my bones :)....just be careful, don't go reaching out, stay within your walls a little longer.


Me: 50
W: 45
M 24 T 26
S:23 S:21
WAW 15/8/08

Now living it large