That's a good point, BrianR. We can't help her at this time. It's a shame she won't help herself. It'll be hard to continue to show the changes after this - I don't feel like being nice and friendly. She is ripping the family apart for selfish personal reasons.
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09
