I'm going to call BS. You will always care about your W for the simple fact she is your children's mother.....my maid of honor....her parents HATED each other when they divorced. But not too long ago, her father said he would always care about his ex because she gave him three beautiful children and if she were falling off a cliff, first he'd laugh and then help her up. But then again you are a man and once my H said at the beginning of all of this that our "connection went beyond S". So maybe you're right. Or maybe it's somewhere in between.