We haven't told the kids about the separation/divorce, whatever the hell it is.
So now tomorrow she will be creating her own bedroom. When I asked her this morning when we will be telling the kids, she said, some time this weekend.
I said well we need to talk about what we will say and how we will communicate it to a 3yr. old and a 7yr. old. She said I don't know when we can talk about it. What the hell!
Yesterday I told her I wouldn't be home tonight because I needed to get out of the house. So she says to me, well when will you leave and are you going to come home. What!
She says the reason I am asking is because your neot telling me where your going, so therefore I don't know if you will be coming home. She then said I just need to prepare myself for what I need to do about dinner and getting the kids ready in the morning. I said of course I will be home tomorrow night and will help with the kids like I always do. And then I asked her why she would ask me if I was going to come home, she says, well like I said your not telling me anything, I tell you where I am going, what I will be doing and when I will be home.
In my mind I am thinking, that's toalal B.S., you mean like the times you have bought tickets to go see bands in intimate club settings in a city 3hrs. away with another man.
So I said, look your not communicating things with me so what do you think our boundries should be then.
She responds with I told you I was going to go seethose bands ahead of time, you just tell me the day before. Uh ya, I am driving over to my parents house, what the F are you doing? I didn't say that but that's whats on my mind.
