Hello Thank you everyone for replying. Yes I am new to the group. We have been married for 10 years we have 4 kids 3,5,7, and 9. He drives a truck but is currently staying here while he was temp laid off, he will be going back to work on Sunday. We had a pretty up and down marriage but never doubted that he loved me, now he says he loves me but is not in love with me. However he will slip and make comments about the future and us being in it. He will have these days where you think he is hitting rock bottom and then the next day it is as if nothing happened. I know that I need to let go, but how, it hurts! This was the person I was going to spend the rest of my life. However the man I loved is not who he is anymore so why do I hold onto hope that he will come back around. As far as the other girl I have outed her and told her hubby what I thought was going on and she swears that all they did was talk which leads me to beleive it is more and EA then anything which hurts just the same. It drives me crazy not being connected to him like I used to be. We did everything together and talked all the time I lost my husband but my BF too!
