Divorce looming #6

[K4D]

I'm not on videochat with them every night. Just most nights. I always talk to them on the phone regardless of videochat.

I always do their prayers with them on their cell phone before they go to bed at night. They know I love them and miss them. Hopefully I will get to see them Sunday night. W is going to be stunned. Probably angry, upset, mad, hate me more, etc. But this isn't about her. Its about me being there for my kids. I'm still studying by the way.

Kevin

[K4D]

Its only 12:38am. Is everyone already asleep?

Kevin

[davidswife]

Kevin,

You did a good job handling that situation with your wife. I agree that you can set a time with your D11 when you will call her every night.

Good job, Kevin!

[K4D]

Thanks DW,

Today is day 2 of going dark. I submitted my resume for a few more positions yesterday. Hopefully I will get some interviews.

Kevin

[davidswife]

Keep up the good work, Kevin.

I'm proud of you!!

dw

[davidswife]

Keep up the good work, Kevin.

I'm proud of you!!

dw

[davidswife]

Keep up the good work, Kevin.

I'm proud of you!!

dw

[K4D]

Thanks. This is tough. I'm obviously worried about getting a job where I am not struggling financially. I'm also worried things are going to be worse by me being back in the city as far as how my W views me and treats me. But I'm not going there for her. I'm going there for my kids.

I just wish she wouldn't be so evil towards me. I don't understand this whole thing as to the A, the D, wanting me completely out of her life as if I don't exist, etc.

Its not easy to fathom all of this. But I do exist. And I have 2 wonderful girls that want me back. And I want to be back with them.

I think its hard when your S does not see that you truly are sorry for your mistakes and want to make things better. On top of that when they don't even care if you make better changes. They are so caught up in their new life sometimes that nothing else matters to them. But to treat people like they don't even exist and not have a care in the world about them. Thats hard to swallow sometimes.

Kevin

[FitChik]

On top of that when they don't even care if you make better changes. They are so caught up in their new life sometimes that nothing else matters to them. But to treat people like they don't even exist and not have a care in the world about them. Thats hard to swallow sometimes.

I understand how you feel. It is very hard to accept or understand. Don't have any advice for you.... just wanted to let you know I am with you on that

[MrBond]

YOu've got to stop thinking about why your W is acting the way she is. You're still obsessing over it.

Accept things are the way they are and that they can and will change. For better or worse.