Hi sweet, and WHY would you give her an uncontested D, especially with kids? Does she plan on moving the kids away? Or is she going to abandon them to follow her heart?
EVERYONE has issues in their M but you work on them not run away and have an A. The BS do inventory and make changes to ourselves but the WS move on and change nothing and that is why the track record is so bad for these R to last.
I agree with you, Hope, and I advised him NOT to EVER go uncontested when there is active adultery going on. Not sure what he's thinking here . . .
