No, keeps it with the engagement ring in the jewerly box. Decided I'll wait. Everything with her takes a lot of time to turn around so I don't want to push it. DR book says pick your battles wisely. I'm not going to win this one yet so I try to focus on other things.
Commited
If it were just the ring, I might agree with you. But the cellphone contact should be a dealbreaker.
Yes, this (withdrawal, and reconciliation) does take time. But reconciliation (and its healing) does not even BEGIN until she goes thru withdrawal, and THAT doesn't begin until she ENDS ALL CONTACT . . . and every time she has another contact, the clock resets.
