Ok, I'll think about this one some more. I think however, I'll have to wait for the situation to present itself. As someone indiciated earlier, I think she is close to spilling the beans. There probably is not right way to do this. It's probably dependent on the person. And she did tell me she had a good time-- several times in fact.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!