That being said, if handled right (ie he either just doesn't bring up this "date" or he begs out with "something has come up") then not doing the date is fine too. What I don't like as much though is that it's natural to beg out in this situation. His wife would see it as a sign that he's crushed or too angry to do this.
I was kinda of leaning toward this line of thinking as well. There's nothing saying that she won't cancel though. I hope she's not that conflicted. I would like to go out in public with a beautiful female and have a good time.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!