Yeah, I would think dating your spouse would be difficult but well worth it. Take it slow. You could always discuss ground rules with her to see where she is coming from. You already have a lot going for you.
I am glad that you both are willing to give it a shot. Sometimes that is more than most of us can wish for.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory