It's hard for me to tell you to pressure her, because that is what everyone else says NOT to do. I'm just saying it worked on me. We all end up in stitches where we could have chosen better. That's part of what this Phoenix Process is. To realize it, and apply it for next time, because there will be other stitches in which we will be challenged. We all have to learn from this experience and be better people for it, otherwise, what was the point?
I can't even begin to guess about how to pressure her "the right way". That is something that probably only you know her well enough to guess about.
But. If she keeps telling you she had a really really good time, then it IS the right thing to do again.
Do what works, remember? And don't do what doesn't work.
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
