Am I doing the right thing?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

she didn't know if she could forgive me for that.

Yeah, causes that right up there with killing someone...

Look man it's like projection. She doesn't know if she can forgive you because she doesn't think you will forgive her...
for what? Hell man I don't know, but willing to bet its the reason she feels all paranoid about your 'prying' into her life...

So What are you doing for yourself? Have you and the kids seen ?Monsters vs Aliens yet?