She may HAVE been having an affair, but I am not so sure she is in the middle one NOW.
This is what I speculate also. It may have been a one night stand though as she went TDY about 5 times while I was gone. Much easier to cut loose on a TDY where drinking and fellowship are generally encouraged. Drinking a bit too much perhaps and one thing leads to another. Very poor character for her though to put herself in a situation like that since she's not a big drinker. God, it sickens me to think about what happened.
I see what you are saying Mel. I don't like it but I see it. It still doesn't justify doing what she did if she did it.
She's taking the easy way out. I can see that. The only problem is, it isn't easy for anyone else.
How do you propose I go about pressuring her? On the phone? In person? Did that make things easier for your H once he knew? So many things to think about.
BTW, sent someone who I think is you a friend request on facebook--wasn't sure if it was you though.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!