You shouldn't worry about her being wishy washy. YOU just need NOT to be wishy washy, clingy, needy. Be strong in her presence.
BTW, Was this date her idea, or yours? I ask that because of what Puppy said above.
Remember that you're early in this process. You have got to get to a place where you quit worrying about what she thinks or makes her tick. Food for thought, if I had given my W the D back in October; she would've jumped on it. Instead, I'm in my mind wondering how I'm going to proceed because she wants to try and put it back together again. That was 6 months ago. IT TAKES TIME!
