That may be true but the funny thing is she just sits around her apartment. She's not doing anything. How do I know this? She calls me constantly and is always coming over. I'll gladly work on it after she comes back or after we divorce. I'm still trying to decide what I want to do. Stay in the military or get a job elsewhere. That's if I can get a job elsewhere. Just so tired right now.
I didn't take the time to romance the wife properly. I know there is significant room for improvement in this area. The problem is she doesn't want anything from me at this point in this department. If she came back, we would have a date at least once a week. I would look forward to it. If I had known this was coming, I would have been a lot more proactive in this department. I just want the opportunity and I don't understand why she doesn't feel obligated after 15 years to give it to me.
Somewhere in that 15 years; she started emotionally detaching herself for some reason. We men, in our DAMness, never seem to get it until it's too late. I think she's giving you an opportunity; but you have to do it on her terms for it to be effective. She doesn't feel obligated just because you've been together 15 years.
I believe that she probably has felt unimportant to you and someone gave her some excitement in her life and it was too hard to step away.
