The adventure continues

[AFWAW]

And it's true, I never took the time to romance my W. I was too busy with career and the kids. I took the relationship with my W for granted. Look back at your M and ask yourself; what did you do WITH my W that made her feel loved and the most important person in my life?

I've realized now that we must continue dating even when we're married.

That may be true but the funny thing is she just sits around her apartment. She's not doing anything. How do I know this? She calls me constantly and is always coming over. I'll gladly work on it after she comes back or after we divorce. I'm still trying to decide what I want to do. Stay in the military or get a job elsewhere. That's if I can get a job elsewhere. Just so tired right now.

I didn't take the time to romance the wife properly. I know there is significant room for improvement in this area. The problem is she doesn't want anything from me at this point in this department. If she came back, we would have a date at least once a week. I would look forward to it. If I had known this was coming, I would have been a lot more proactive in this department. I just want the opportunity and I don't understand why she doesn't feel obligated after 15 years to give it to me.