We still have an evening out tonight at the Comedy club, but my W has started pushing back a bit in the past 24 hours - "I'm not sure if I want to go." "I'm tired." "I'm not sure if we should spend the money." etc. Each time I just said "No problem, if you don't want to go, you don't have to. I'll probably still go". Finally this morning I asked her point blank "Please let me know if you want to go tonight or not. No problem either way, but if you don't want to go, I have to cancel the babysitter". She paused a minute, then said "No, I'll go"
So we are going, but she's not overly enthusiastic. Have to make sure it is low key and fun without being "date-like". This is the first time we have been out together since her birthday a month ago (and that was a bit uncomfortable).
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
