This is tough coming up with something to do when I'm so used to just staying home and all my friends are married and pretty much just stay home
Here is something that you need to work on. It's possible that she is "bored" with that lifestyle. My W often complained that we never did anything.
And it's true, I never took the time to romance my W. I was too busy with career and the kids. I took the relationship with my W for granted. Look back at your M and ask yourself; what did you do WITH my W that made her feel loved and the most important person in my life?
I've realized now that we must continue dating even when we're married.
