So I got a letter from my lawyer yesterday saying there's been a change in my file. I called but he hasn't called me back yet. W sent a nastygram email about talking to her family and the other wife about her activities and demanding I stop on Sat, but the Lawyer's Letter is dated on Friday.

We talked briefly on Tuesday about the kids. She flew out to the coast Fri-Mon (good thing she's so broke), told her boss she was going to one city, her sister another, and I suspect she followed OM to yet a third (I think she was confronted by the wife but no proof).

I'm doing better with the detaching ang GAL, but there are still times I miss talking to her so much. The kids are with me for the rest of the week then off to her place for a week (that's always hard). I've fallen off the high road occasionally, but for the most part am sticking to it.

Here's hoping she starts to do some soul searching soon.


Me: 36 years old 1st marriage
Wife: 40 years old second marriage
S: 12
D: 6
Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09.
PA confirmed 03/09
Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.