Bbj, Dan needs to feel he lost you before you can get back together. He needs to feel/know you are gone. I am sorry about Nathan. My kids are in the same state, they dont know what is going on and feel worse than what they did in the summer when I was telling them me and H are NOT getting back together... You talk to the councelor and tell her what you want. I did that and she never told my kids we were "done"(because when they were having sessions I was dbing my b#%t off still...). love K
