Those questions were way too easy. Joking is fun and has it's place, regardless of what you decide, this isn't going to just magically go away and our spouses won't either. I guess what I'm trying to say is what ever direction you decide to go you owe it to yourself and your children to take the time and really learn about what your dealing with so you can deal with it in the right way. Everyone needs to work on themselves when something like this happens to improve and to heal. Yes, laughter is good medicine, however it really doesn't do much good of your if your standing still. Don't get me wrong we do this to blow off steam, but the real reason we are here is to work on ourselves and get support while walking together through some pretty tough times.
