i agree with you, john, but her sitch is difficult to navigate because she wants a healthy husband and father for her kids. dan won't be able to regain the time he's wasting by flailing around being "resentful". those kids and his wife need him to grow the [censored] up!

BbJ, you are doing an excellent job with your kids and I admire you so much. I love the fact that you are being careful about which counseler you choose. You make a great point when you say that you don't want some therapist telling your son that "mommy and daddy are getting divorced, and it's ok". it's not ok. where do these idiots get their degrees anyway?