So, as AmyM advised you, don't get your hopes up too quickly about having good sex at this time.......especially if your H acts distant the next day! That is a red flag (to me) if he does not appear to be closer to you and pulls away the next day as if he is afraid you WILL get the idea that he is over OW.
Good points, Sandi.
It is also very often that a spouse in the middle of an affair actually feels like they're CHEATING on their girlfriend/boyfriend when they have sex with their own wife/husband! Sick and twisted, yes, but VERY common, and that could be why he pulls away from you.
