I can't help but feel for you when i read your posts. I am not talking about your son but you. You are in a state of limbo and are clinging to the hope that your H will decide that he wants to live happily ever after with you. that may still happen. If that is what BBJ wants, then i hope it does. As I have posted to K, us old timers tend to drop the DB basics for various reasons. It is easy for me to comment awhen have no "real" emotional attachment to your sitch other than your well being. I just get the sense when i read your posts that you are clinging to Dan. Don't get me wrong, having been there, i understand how you feel. However, if i can feel you clinging he must also feel the same. I would say respond only to his communications when it involves the kids and do not initiate contact. On the Disney vaca, plan without him. Just you and the kids BBJ. It is time that Dan realizes that you may be drifting away. Just my opinion of course. I may be out in left field.
