Actually, the spending on the OW's baby was more my doing, not that H put up a fight. But, we were making good money and I always like to do big gifts.......I of course see now that I was always trying to buy H's love and approval..... \:\(

And remember, we had known OW for years.....been to her wedding....been to her parents for Christmas parties, etc....

TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd