So H is still communicating with ex-OW. I asked him again Do you want to pursue this? If you do, I'll have to understand and I will take a step back out of your life and we'll have S between us and we'll take very good care of him. But if you are still into this person, I'm not going to get in your way, as you seem to think I have been in the past." He emphatically said NO, she's lucky I don't elbow her in the mouth.
So, not sure what to think there. But I've decided not too anymore.
Yesterday, me and Girlfriend/Roommate buried ex-OW after we burned her, literally. I took some of the emails that were sent to me and we found a tin can and burned it all. Then I dug a small hole and buried the ashes. So now she's "dead" and my Girlfriend/Roommate says I can ONLY complain about ex-OW to Girlfriend/Roommate.
To be honest, and I know I can be here, I'm tired. I'm tired of this person in his life and I'm even more tired of her in mine.
Let me go find something to jump start me.
I'll post more later.