Actually it doesn't really matter. If she is doing it that won't change anything. It would only give me grounds for divorce and an opportunity to character asassinate her. I don't want to do either one.
Last night she went to al-anon with her mom. When she came home she said her mom is going to go anymore. I laughed inside. They are a family who can't look at themselves and see their flaws and change them. My W is the same way. Whenever a C started to shine a light inside her she always stopped going. But that's neither here not there.
Yesterday I got into it with my W on the phone. My frustration and anger came out (but did it non-emotionally) and I let her have it double barrel - the lying/manipulating/exagerating/embelishing the truth, her attempts to manipulate me, etc... It was nice to get it off my chest. Most of the stuff I hit she had nothing. She has been taking advantage of me and has been disrespectful and I had to stand up for myself.
Anyway, that's the update.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
