Just when I think things are going OK, STBX comes out of the lake like Freddy Kruegar!
I received a text from her on Tuesday telling me S10 was sick and not able to go to school. I have taken the last two times off that he has been sick, and have been out of work a ton of days already (after being away for 18 months!) She informed me that D16 had 4 appointments with shrinks and she couldn't care for S10. FIRST I HEARD OF THE APPOINTMENTS! I told her no. She puts S10 on the phone to tell me he's sick, and refused to talk to me. I explained to S10 I couldn't take a day off, because I missed so much work already.
STBX then sends me a bill for $500 for doctors visit. She took D16 to shrinks that I TOLD her not to because they work with kids in my school, and I don't want "my two worlds colliding"
I also cashed a $1500 check for medical reimbursement and put it in my account. She demanded I give it baack to her because she paid with "her own money". MY lawyer told her to file a petition.
Now yesterday, she informed me that D16 has been accepted back into treatment for her bulimia, and "we had to pay as we went"! I knew D16 needed to go back ino therapy, but I DID NOT know we had to pay as we go.
I had enough. I told her that there was 112K in the bank that are "marital assets" and that she had to use that money. If she couldn't, I can't afford to pay for it. I'm going to have to go to court to use "her" money, which I mostly gave her! I hope no judge around would deny me using this money for health care or school tuition. IT'S NOT HER MONEY! IT'S MARITAL ASSETS! MAKE THE BAD LADY GO AWAY!!!!!!!