Thanks, cat.

WILL THIS EVER END???????

Just when I think things are going OK, STBX comes out of the lake like Freddy Kruegar!

I received a text from her on Tuesday telling me S10 was sick and not able to go to school. I have taken the last two times off that he has been sick, and have been out of work a ton of days already (after being away for 18 months!) She informed me that D16 had 4 appointments with shrinks and she couldn't care for S10. FIRST I HEARD OF THE APPOINTMENTS! I told her no. She puts S10 on the phone to tell me he's sick, and refused to talk to me. I explained to S10 I couldn't take a day off, because I missed so much work already.

STBX then sends me a bill for $500 for doctors visit. She took D16 to shrinks that I TOLD her not to because they work with kids in my school, and I don't want "my two worlds colliding"

I also cashed a $1500 check for medical reimbursement and put it in my account. She demanded I give it baack to her because she paid with "her own money". MY lawyer told her to file a petition.

Now yesterday, she informed me that D16 has been accepted back into treatment for her bulimia, and "we had to pay as we went"! I knew D16 needed to go back ino therapy, but I DID NOT know we had to pay as we go.

I had enough. I told her that there was 112K in the bank that are "marital assets" and that she had to use that money. If she couldn't, I can't afford to pay for it. I'm going to have to go to court to use "her" money, which I mostly gave her! I hope no judge around would deny me using this money for health care or school tuition. IT'S NOT HER MONEY! IT'S MARITAL ASSETS! MAKE THE BAD LADY GO AWAY!!!!!!!

Last edited by FLTC; 03/26/09 10:22 AM.