I desperately want to save my marriage, though my wife seems to be detaching from ME at the moment, rather than me detaching from her. The present strategy is trying to reduce negativity and conflict, step 1 in attempting to reconcile. This also allows for a better atmosphere in the house for the children. I do find your line about respect being tied in with love. If this is the case what would be the way to attempt ro rebuild respect and trust without disturbing the atmosphere? I only have one more week before I move out so anything I can do needs to be done ASAP. As my wife appears to be detaching me and one of our problems was neglectful behaviour by me, what will be the best strategy for when I move out? If I attempt no interaction with her unless it pertains to the children it will be seen as more of the same.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 03/26/0909:55 AM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
