Good Morning. I read your reply and I want you to know that I am not nit-picking at things in your letter but want to just point one thing out that I think probably may have been a verbal habit people have more than seriously thinking about the context. However, if I may point this out since you said you had been doing a lot of praying on the matter:
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I hope to be able to show you that for the rest of our lives if God wills it for us.
If the two of you were legally M and for the right reasons, etc. (you know what I mean?), then I would think that is is certainly God's will that the M survive. However, His will is not always carried out b/c He allows us to make our own decisions. So, just don't give her an easy way out by even planting the idea in her head that "Oh well, I guess it just wasn't God's will or we would be together". I'm not trying to sound sarcastic and hope it doesn't come across to you as though I am, okay? The reason I even bring it up is b/c she is already using everything she can to make this look like it is your fault. First it is your bad temper and then you lock her out of her home. She is playing the victim real good, huh?
I must be in a "preaching" mood this week from the look at my posts, but it just jumped out at me and I felt compelled to point that out. Just remember, that even when the other spouse does not do God's will and cooperate to work on the M, if you have done what you can and you stay obedient to Him, He will bless you for that. So, if she doesn't turn back around and you move on down the road, I do believe that you will be blessed as long as YOU are making your choices based on God's will. You are the only one you can control in this stitch (as you've heard many times.)
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
