I can tell the D is hurting my kids. That much is obvious. You are right, the S wanting the D does not take anyone into consideration except themselves. They don't realize the path of destruction they are creating by doing this. All they see if what they perceive as happiness and it doesn't matter who elses life it affects.
Pollyanna, I am sorry to hear your H dealt with it the way he did. Geez. My W is having a PA and I still want us to fix things and she won't work with me at all. I told her several times I can overlook the A, all I care about is us fixing our M and family.
Doesn't matter to her. You are a good woman to go back to your H even after having the A. He should have realized there were problems that caused the A and tried to work on things to create a better M for yall since you were willing to try. He doesn't know how lucky he actually was to have the fact you were willing after the A.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...