Wife is out and annouced OM to all #2

[Tawnya]

{{{Tom}}}} Absolutely HOORAY And good for you and it sounds like you have a clear direction and clear expectations..which is a GREAT place to start!

Puppy is right on the money with his advice about the records. My mom, who is a psychologist, told me that she has counseled people who went thru this and answered that question "how often do I check/let them check phone records/emails/whatever" and her answer is "as much as THEY need to feel secure..if it takes you calling if you are going to be 5 minutes late..you have to be willing to do that for the reconciling to work.."

Hugs to you

Tawnya