(((Kass)))..Thank you. I too find alot of perspective in your words too. I think its because we have a little different twist in our sich's than most on here. The A throws it all into a different place and without permanent recovery for the addiction there is no way a M will work regardless of any other changes we or our H's make.

You are doing so well and it sounds like he really maybe turning a corner. He is going to meetings and I am sure doing the hard work of self discovery without the alcohol fog. Thats huge in itself.


Last edited by Startingover2; 03/26/09 03:20 AM.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!