Steve..Thanks, that's good advice. I'll keep that!!
Puppy,
What I worry about the most right now is the frequency of communication. I got really used to never calling her. She initiates 98% of all the communication between us. So going dark was great for me. Maybe a little too good.
Because, I feel awkward. Do I call her now that she wants to date? Or do I still let her initiate? I'd like to step up and just be a decisive male and act like I would with any other female I've dated. But the "rules", if you will, seem SO different in this situation. maybe they're not? I don't want to over pursue; yet I don't want to seem totally uninterested.
Then there is how often do I check her call records? Every day? Once a month? Only if I suspect something suspicious?
This is going to be a whole lot harder than the work I've already done.
