I think that some people handle these sitches differently. My exh rarely kept me current with his parents - the kids did that for me. Current H would call me with every bump and bruise and false alarm about his mother.

Besides, look at the obvious Silva... she is not in her right mind - what other reason would she have for not being with you... so it only makes sense that she doesn't tell you things.... she does this with everyone.

Sorry, MIL is not well.

I could almost imagine what you wanted to say to AJ, on my thread. I gave it a try. I tried to ignore how much he sounded like my H. But there is an update from tonight with some hopefulness for a change.

Posted a note to you too.


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11