Me: H, I just don't know what this conversation is all about. You called to say "Hi" but I told you that I don't want to talk to you while you're having an affair. As much as I miss you and like to talk to you, you're still having an affair.
. . . as was this:
Quote:
H: Fine, I'm sorry I called.
Me: Don't be sorry you've called, be sorry you're not making the choice to respect me.
H: Ok, I'll let you go.
Me: Ok, good bye.
THIS is the fertile middle ground that so many others are struggling to plow! NOT enabling or in any indicating that you "are okay" with what he's doing, but not b*tchy or mean either. Just loving statements of FACT. Bravo.
