We have made it to the other side 4

[theotherhalf]

YR, Treese, Snodderly
Thanks for the post, even though it was for Treese. I too am going through alot of the feelings she is. This is so damb hard. Really!

I too have went NC. I don't call him anymore for ANYTHING. Alot of the exuses I had to call I have realized my mental health is more important. If we lose a calf because H didn't check them today, well HE was supposed to. If he didn't work some this week, I'll have to buckle down tighter next week. I guess recent events of him staying away and then calling on the weekends for sex, then feeling OW is back, gave me the strength to finally let go. Enough pain. Enough abuse. I've allowed way too much.

Please, please Treese listen to these woman. Go out there and find a life for you. Leave H to MLC, OW, or whatever else he has chosen for himself. There REALLY REALLY is nothing more we can do to save our M's. After 2 years, it's past time...

(((Treese)))
Luv, TOH