I then said that's why we need to have a talk about communication, that's all, no relationship talk or anything, just how we can communicate with each other in a healthy way right now.
She began to get more angry at this point, and said no she didn't want to have a talk tonight or right then.
I said ok so when do you want to have a talk, she said I don't know just not right now or tonight. She then said, see this exactly it you are not listening to me . . .
I agree -- you're not. And you're not listening to US, either, when we tell you TO LEAVE HER THE HECK ALONE RIGHT NOW.