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that's a long nightmare!


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Define what it means when an MLCer hits you with a projection.


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How many points do I get for that one? My kids always ask me after we go over a test or something how much does each question "cost". It cracks me up.


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not a trick question ;\)


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times up.....hey I gotta run. I'm gonna holler at mach and this insomniac neeeds some sleep I holler at ya later.


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Projection... He projects his faults/unhappiness onto me and see's me as the cause of all of his problems, when in fact, it lies within his own faulty thinking.

Catch ya later trapt.
Enjoy your sleep.


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What's up.

Those questions were way too easy. Joking is fun and has it's place, regardless of what you decide, this isn't going to just magically go away and our spouses won't either. I guess what I'm trying to say is what ever direction you decide to go you owe it to yourself and your children to take the time and really learn about what your dealing with so you can deal with it in the right way. Everyone needs to work on themselves when something like this happens to improve and to heal. Yes, laughter is good medicine, however it really doesn't do much good of your if your standing still. Don't get me wrong we do this to blow off steam, but the real reason we are here is to work on ourselves and get support while walking together through some pretty tough times.


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That was really good advice trapt.



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Trapt,

I like you.

Wish all my problems would go away. Wish all my daughter's problems would go away and I really do wish all my wifes problems would go away. Wish we all can be happy again one way or another.

The first rule of healing is don't forget how to have fun.

You all make me laugh and help with sound advice.


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Wish all my problems would go away. Wish all my daughter's problems would go away and I really do wish all my wifes problems would go away. Wish we all can be happy again one way or another.


Kenn, man can you wish me up a pony while you're at it?

Wishing is fine, but it doesn't do crap all, and while your wishing daylight is fading.

Problems as trite as this sounds are to be overcome, and in doing so makes a person better or builds character...sometimes problems crush people and instead of character that person builds up excuses.

I am sorry that your wife and daughter are having problems...but that and $3.50 will buy you a 'small' coffee at Starbucks.

So you need to do something for you while they figure out their problems...and not wish them away. : )



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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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