Nope, there is no way on earth she is going to get custody, that is pretty much a given. She could make an issue for more visitation time, but that is about the only thing she can really push for under the circumstances. The kids are adamant that they do not want to go to Germany, and they are old enough to have a say in where they want to live, and what language they want to speak.

I'm going to chalk it up to just getting better informed of the law and what is going to happen should the divorce go through. Of course, she is now out getting consoled by her friends... I told the kids about what is happening and they took it pretty well considering. My S17 and D12 tell me I should just expedite the divorce (waive the 90 day waiting period) and move on. My S13 says I should definitely take the 90 days to give her more time to "snap out of it". I'm not sure what I'll do, actually.


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EA Bomb 6/08
Sep 11/20/08
Ret 08/09
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